is the feelings gone

Category: Dating and Relationships

Post 1 by Miss Gorgeous (I'm going for the prolific poster awards!) on Monday, 27-Jun-2005 18:47:38

hey to all whose been throigh a relationship, how can you tell if his/her feelings are gone, and he/she is no longer in to you?

Post 2 by dissonance (Help me, I'm stuck to my chair!) on Monday, 27-Jun-2005 19:25:01

If the person starts to act really neutral around you, like either nice because he/she doesn't want you to feel bad, or extremely bored, then that may give you a signl.

Post 3 by Goblin (I have proven to myself and the world that I need mental help) on Tuesday, 28-Jun-2005 11:11:18

they may begin to show interest in other women show little interest in you or your life, cease calling so often..make excuses when you suggest going somewhere and doing something together its a real bitch that 1...

Post 4 by Miss Gorgeous (I'm going for the prolific poster awards!) on Tuesday, 28-Jun-2005 15:22:32

ok what if his subtle, its hard to tell but i know it.

Post 5 by Goblin (I have proven to myself and the world that I need mental help) on Wednesday, 29-Jun-2005 10:14:13

If he's subtle then he may be trying to let you down gently, or he may not be able to tell you outright that he has had enough,either way the guy is saying he's no longer interested ....

Post 6 by Miss Gorgeous (I'm going for the prolific poster awards!) on Wednesday, 29-Jun-2005 20:41:07

that hurts, so thats why he cant even give even friendship. OMG it hurts. i dont want to fall again it hurts.

Post 7 by Miss Gorgeous (I'm going for the prolific poster awards!) on Wednesday, 29-Jun-2005 20:43:59

Goblin waht you said really hit me so hard. i'm lost. well i cant do anything about it. its reality.

Post 8 by Goblin (I have proven to myself and the world that I need mental help) on Thursday, 30-Jun-2005 11:40:41

I'm sorry but its better to be direct than just say hugs ect...you need to make some time for yourself and yourself alone, ok forget about dating for a while and just indulge yourself and do whtever you need to get over this ..its hell and the pain is tangible, some go as far as saying its feels like grief, and in a way they are right becauase you are grieving for what you have lost,treat the pain as grief and take your time there is NO rush all right ..take care ok..

Post 9 by tear drop (No longer looking for a prince, merely a pauper with potential!!!!!) on Wednesday, 17-May-2006 19:51:51

I thought the feelings were gone, but they are not.
I just can't and couldn't shake the one I love, no matter how I try or tried.

Post 10 by changedheart421 (I've now got the bronze prolific poster award! now going for the silver award!) on Monday, 19-Jun-2006 21:19:24

they may begin to tell you o nothing everytime you ask